Fashion Over 40: 9 Style Rules & Why You Should Break Them

1. Don't try to look trendy

If you follow the trends like I do and like to incorporate them into your outfit ideas, why on earth would you not want to do that once you reach 40? 

However if you're wearing something simply because it's a trend and it looks blooming awful then fine I agree, but if you’re choosing pieces that suit you and happen to be on trend then style away.

2. No mini skirts

I personally prefer wearing midi dresses, however if I thought I had an amazing pair of legs whatever age my birthday card reads why on earth would you not show them off?

3. Avoid sleeveless clothing

There is this over 40 style rule about never showing your upper arms which I find really really odd. If you're happy with your arms, why would you not show them off? It's certainly a lot more practical in the height of summer, that's for sure. 

From a styling point of view, if you're really not keen on your upper arms you can still choose something sleeveless and add a pashmina or a cardigan over the top.

4. No sheer fabrics

Sheer fabrics are one of the big trends at the moment that I really love, and while I won't be going out in a bralette and sheer slip over the top anytime soon, I will be interpreting the trend in my own way.

I found this top recently and depending on my mood and the occasion I might wear it with just a pretty bra underneath, or layer it with a camisole top.

5. Cleavage is a big no-no 

I think a beautiful open back on a dress for example is far sexier than a whole lot of cleavage could ever be. It's about a hint of skin, and the unsaid is the sexy part. If it's all on show there's not much left to imagine.

That being said there is always a flip side, you might love your cleavage and you like to show it off and it makes you feel at your best. So if that's the case then great go ahead.

6. Cover your gray

Just take a look at the pictures above. I am firmly in the camp of just going with the flow when it comes to gray hair. Far from looking old if that's what you're worried about, done right I think it can look incredibly chic.

It's fun to experiment with your hair and there absolutely shouldn't be any panic setting in once you notice a few gray stragglers coming through. 

7. No black leather 

I love my vintage leather jacket, it was my mom's from her biker days. I love how individual it made her look and from a style point of view, I think a leather jacket is totally invaluable for your capsule wardrobe.

It's one of those pieces that if in doubt, I'll stick it on top of my outfit and it instantly makes it feel fresher and up to date. 

It's the same with leather pants. They’re not for everyone, I know, but I've personally developed a newfound love for them.

8. No bikinis 

I disagree with this one because I honestly believe that women look far more flattering in bikinis than they do in one-pieces. There's something about one-pieces that feels like it can actually

accentuate my tummy.

I also think that having two separate elements to your swimwear enables the bra section to do the job it's designed to do rather than pulling you in weird and wonderful directions.

9. No long hair

I have a few friends who reach 40 and felt the need to cut their hair much shorter. While I like short hair, I definitely wouldn't think of it just because of my age. Taking a look at Sarah Harris who not only rocks a great head of gray hair but the length is stunning too. 

Fashion over 40

I don’t believe that once you hit the 40 mark you have to hide half your body. There are tweaks and tips which can help along the way, but ultimately you know deep down when something is truly you.

Don't get swayed by silly over-40 style rules that were probably dreamed up 100 years ago; be you through and through and that confidence will radiate off you.